E.M. Delafield was a very prolific novelist, and even though I’ve been reading her steadily for more than 20 years, there is still a handful of her books I’ve not read. I am pretty sure I’ve owned The Chip and the Block (1925) for the best part of those 20 years, and I finally got it down from my special Delafield shelf yesterday – and it’s lovely to spend more time in her company. (I will note that she needlessly uses the n-word in the first line, which was not an auspicious beginning, and I’m glad didn’t continue beyond that.)
If you’ve only read The Diary of a Provincial Lady and its sequels, you might think of E.M. Delafield primarily as a comic writer. And, yes, she is brilliant at comedy – often weaving dry humour into most of her more serious novels. I think The Chip and the Block is one of the least overtly funny – though there is dark humour, and the comedy that comes from somebody being totally lacking in self-knowledge.
Self-knowledge (and, yes, its lack) is the dominant theme in E.M. Delafield’s oeuvre, taken as a whole. In The Chip and the Block, it is seen chiefly in Charles Ellery, also known as Chas. He is the patriarch of a small family, with his tired, good wife Mary and his three children – Paul, Jeannie, and Victor. As the novel opens, the children are young – Victor, the youngest, is only recently engaging in conversations. The whole family has been recovering from influenza, and the most affected are Victor and Charles. Victor has been seriously ill. Charles has declared himself so. This telling scene happens during the recuperation period:
“Come along!” Father shouted gaily, catching Jeannie by the hand.
“You’re forgetting your stick, Father,” said Victor’s baby voice.
He pointed to the stick that had fallen unnoticed to the ground.
Father looked at Victor, and Victor looked back at his father. Paul could not help noticing them.
Although he was so unobservant about things and places, he always noticed people, and he often felt curious certainties as to what they were thinking and feeling.
This time he did not feel any certainties at all, but only a little uneasiness that he could not possibly have explained even to himself.
It is emblematic of many personalities. Paul is also watching, bewildering by the world even while he can perceive things that others miss. He is often close to tears, and fears his father’s ready wrath – which irritates him even more. Jeannie is content, happy to dismiss any sad feelings, and amiably unintelligent. And Victor? If Charles is the block, he is the chip. He sees through his father’s masquerades – while also being given to many of the same foibles as he grows older.
Delafield’s portrait of Charles is so frustratingly accurate. We all know people who have at least some echo of his personality. Charles is a fairly unsuccessful writer, totally given to self-mythologising. He is ruthlessly selfish but presents himself as angelically selfless, always berating his children for not considering anybody except themselves. He tells stories of finding Beethoven so beautiful as a four-year-old that he bursts into tears of artistic joy (his sharp elderly mother says he was seven years old, and cried because he’d eaten too many plums). He claims to have slaved night and day to write books while the children played and cried around his feet – while they distinctly remember being kept far from his study, and shouted out if they made any noise.
Charles doesn’t develop or grow as a character, it is fair to say, but Delafield has drawn him so well that it doesn’t matter. His arguments and self-presentation are so eloquently twisted that it is hard to disagree with him – and he certainly wouldn’t brook any contradiction, given his self-proclaimed artistic and sensitive temperament. But he is a nightmare to be near, poisoning the family around him.
The novel progresses until the children are grown up, and the second half of the novel looks more at the legacies of this upbringing – including careers, romances, and the inescapable expectations of their father. Again, they develop entirely in line with the personalities they showed as infants. Is that true? Perhaps, though I imagine there is more scope in reality for people to be distinct from their past selves. I hope I’m not very like my eight-year-old self, though maybe that is wishful thinking.
Anyway, I think this is a strong, convincing and engaging contribution to E.M. Delafield’s wide output. I did miss the wit that characterises most of her books, and she clearly wanted to do something more sombre and serious. On its own merits, it’s very good indeed.
LOL I had this author mixed up with R M Delderfield (A Horseman Riding By and To Serve Them All My Days)…
When I looked EMD up, it seems she has written a couple that really interest me… does your stash include the one about looking for war work during the Phoney War, or the one about her experiences as a tourist in the Soviet Union? I’m intrigued by that one… how did it come about, I wonder? I thought that getting a tourist visa for the USSR was not only very difficult because they were so wary of outsiders, but also led to being watched by the security services ever thereafter on return to the west.
PS I have subscribed *again*. Another WP glitch. I only know about this post of yours because I saw your tweet on BlueSky. (Do we call them tweets at Blue Sky?)
Yes, The War Workers and Straw Without Bricks! The latter is such an odd book – she was clearly asked for some sort of PR exercise, and the report she gives is a bit muted. Not her most successful book (and then weirdly rebranded as The Provincial Lady in Russia, which it absolutely isn’t).
“Charles is a fairly unsuccessful writer, totally given to self-mythologising.”
LOVE this!!
She does it so well!
This sounds quite a dark tale in many ways, quite intriguing from the pen of EMD. Your comment about changing from when you were a child made me laugh. One time I said to my mother: ‘I don’t really remember playing with toys – what did I do?’ and the answer was ‘Well, as soon as you learnt to read you were always with a book, and you liked cooking, and crafts and helping in the garden.’ So basically I’ve had the same hobbies my entire life – no development at all!
Yes, she can be SO dark. I think Persephone did the darkest one, Consequences. And ha, yes, I’ve definitely done the book-reading consistently forever.
Nor me, – no development at at all according to my mother – and I was not a very likeable child (also according to her account!!). Oh dear, I’ve just broken my resolution not to order any more books from the library until I catch up with my teetering pile; I just couldn’t resist after reading this review. And it’s too long since I’ve read an EMD!
Excellent :D I’ve been thinking about doing a rankings post for EMD, but so many of them are equally good in my mind.
I love your Delefield shelf! I haven’t started reading her yet, but I will!
She is so prolific, so plenty to read when you fall for her!
Ooh a Rankings for Delafield would be very hard! Less dark than Consequences and you’ve sold it to me! I don’t see her second-hand very often but apparently we’re about to get a “vintage” book shop locally so let’s see what that brings …
They’re basically all less dark than Consequences! That really plumbed the depths…